Cheating – – but not by kids?
This is one of the hardest stories to tell, but it has been on my mind since 1984. These are secrets that are normally carried to the grave, and but for one little student teacher that has had her conscience troubling her ever since so would this one.
I was doing my student teaching. It was the end of the year in May and cheerleading tryouts were underway for the year. One of the most intense ones was the competition of the 6th graders to make the Jr. Hi team. Only two 6th graders would make that team and there was around 20 girls trying out for those two positions. It appeared to be above-board. A jury of college cheerleaders made the decision after a tryout that included several different ways to show their stuff. In the end the two girls that won were the two that were expected to win. They were definitely the most popular girls in the 6th grade.
Within a week tragedy stuck. One of the girl’s father was transferred unexpectedly out-of-town, so she would be unable to serve. Thinking that the easiest way to remedy the situation, and without having to go through the entire process again, it appeared that to take the next person down would be the simplest explanation. The files were pulled out in the teachers’ lounge to check on the third place person. Low and behold it was a student that some of the teachers found a little less than desirable. You know, family problems, druggie older brother, poor white wrong side of the track sort of thing. No matter that she was a beautiful, striking, athletic, intelligent girl who may have needed this more than any other of the girls. Then, much to their surprise, the fourth place girls was a teacher’s kid – really good kid, straight As, conservative dresser, good family, etc. They justified their decision by the fact that it was the “right” thing to do.
I sat in the corner ignoring the entire process. I was just taking a class and happen to be there, and I really had no say. I’m having it now. After very little discussion, the decision was made to skip the third place, go to the fourth place, shred all the paperwork and who would ever know the difference. They know, and I know.
It still makes me sick, but doesn’t it remind you of our government? And al those good people wonder what is wrong with our society. They never believe they have anything to do with its corruption.